Is condom use to blame for the lack of intimacy that plagues us?
People use sex as an extension of masturbation these days – with no real regard or connection to their sexual partner. If pregnancy and disease couldn’t be so easily defeated with a little bit of latex, would we be forced to form stronger relationships with our sexual partners? Would it lead to greater intimacy? Is the condom the reason divorce rates are so high, and people are so dissatisfied in marriages – with the groundwork for unhapiness being laid (pun not intended) during the “courtship” period?
I don’t think a common would have anything to do with this. You need to understand that the birth control pill was invented in the 50s and when it became quite popular sexually transmitted diseases were not very difficult to cure (unlike today). So people were much freer with sexual contact with the pill and that did not lead to any better intimacy if anything probably much less. Sexually we’re evolving very rapidly when you think about. When you go back 100 years ago you realize that a woman may have very few choices as to her partners. Now that is turned on its head with the use of the Internet. Someone can find someone very compatible with them that is 1000 miles away. It’s much easier to drift out of a relationship. Also some women are maintaining their virginity but doing other sexual things at a level much higher than ever before…. I mean they’re virgins but very friendly ones.
I think the groundwork for unhappiness has a lot more to do with people not taking the time to communicate their goals, fantasies and future interest to each other. Without this more long-term understanding of each other you cannot form long-lasting relationships.
The Attic Bits – “Plague” @ Decibalia II – Champions Bar – Everett, MA 8.20.2010
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